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MissBo24 | Hi, Nice to meet you all! I am new here but I have been reading many threads on Linda-Goodman for years. This time I need your help interpreting my composite and synastry with this person What do you see in this synastry and composite? Tbh I am terrified with all Uranus, Neptune and moon squares in the composite. Will I ever be or be in a relationship with this person? How does this person really feel about me and this connection? Any long term potential? More likely to be friendship than romantic relationship? A bit of the background: We are from different countries, different races and cultures. I am about 5 years older than him. He lives in the US and I live in Thailand. We met out of the blue in September last year in Thailand (the attraction was insane, I don't wanna say its love at first sight but that how I felt) and we kept in touch ever since. We met again second time this year in July, I flew to see him. Right now we are just friends (but we kissed and xxx already lol) but I know I want something more. I like him a lot but I haven't told him how I feel either, most of the time I be acting cool lol. Personally I don't mind long distance because I like to have my own space and independence and I like it when I get to travel to visit him. However, long distance makes it more difficult to truly get to know one another cause the we don't get to hangout much. I was kinda sad because for the first in forever I met a person I truly wanted to get to know but we just don't live in the same country. I know we have venus conjunct uranus / mars conjunct uranus both double whammy in our synastry and we have them in composite too, but FWB, open-relationship, fling are not my things at all. Do all the moon squares in our composite make the relationship become short-lived affair kinda thing? Composite: Synastry: My natal chart: His natal chart: **PS. someone please tell me how to upload pictures. I am new here.
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Librapurr | It looks long distance with all those Uranus and Neptune, it could be long term affairs. That could be pretty hard for your MoonPluto and Capricorn Venus Saturn. However, close overlapping axises are binding (as tob correct) and you both have similar aspects to DC. There’s attraction, but if you’re asking about making it a traditional relationship, I’m not sure. Neptune (much of it in Composite) implies idealization and not seeing relationship for what it is. |
MissBo24 | quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: It looks long distance with all those Uranus and Neptune, it could be long term affairs. That could be pretty hard for your MoonPluto and Capricorn Venus Saturn. However, close overlapping axises are binding (as tob correct) and you both have similar aspects to DC. There’s attraction, but if you’re asking about making it a traditional relationship, I’m not sure. Neptune (much of it in Composite) implies idealization and not seeing relationship for what it is.
Personally I don’t mind if our relationship is not traditional. I don’t mind long distance at all as long as we communicate consistently. But the problem right now is I feel strongly attracted to this person or I can say that I am obsessed with him but I feel that the feelings are not reciprocated from his side. He can go days and weeks without talking to me like he doesn’t care at all. So at this point should I give up on this relationship and cut him off?
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Librapurr | First, you have a lot of water, he doesn’t. So he might generally don’t feel the way you feel things. His Capricorn Venus Mars sq. Saturn- he could come across pretty cold. His Mercury in synastry is unaspected what doesn’t encourage him to communicate. His moon trine your Venus Mars so there’s attraction, but his Cappy Venus Saturn might be very uncomfortable with Uranus Neptune you put on it. They rule your Sun and Venus so that type of rs could be more fine with you, but he probably need more Saturn and something more traditional. However, his Libra moon tr. Uranus and Gemini AC (Saggy Mercury) could keep friendship like rs. And those disappearing could be normal for these combination and Uranus in your charts.
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MissBo24 | quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: First, you have a lot of water, he doesn’t. So he might generally don’t feel the way you feel things. His Capricorn Venus Mars sq. Saturn- he could come across pretty cold. His Mercury in synastry is unaspected what doesn’t encourage him to communicate. His moon trine your Venus Mars so there’s attraction, but his Cappy Venus Saturn might be very uncomfortable with Uranus Neptune you put on it. They rule your Sun and Venus so that type of rs could be more fine with you, but he probably need more Saturn and something more traditional. However, his Libra moon tr. Uranus and Gemini AC (Saggy Mercury) could keep friendship like rs. And those disappearing could be normal for these combination and Uranus in your charts.
Okay that makes sense why he is not very communicative with me and because we don't have sun conjunct mercury aspect in our composite too so ..... And yes he acted pretty cold when I was with him but it wasn't like he doesn't feel anything but thats just how he is. I feel like he doesn't show emotions except when he's drunk lol. So you're saying that our relationship will never turn into something more than a friendship right? If that is so I need to except the truth. |
Librapurr | quote: Originally posted by MissBo24: Okay that makes sense why he is not very communicative with me and because we don't have sun conjunct mercury aspect in our composite too so ..... And yes he acted pretty cold when I was with him but it wasn't like he doesn't feel anything but thats just how he is. I feel like he doesn't show emotions except when he's drunk lol. So you're saying that our relationship will never turn into something more than a friendship right? If that is so I need to except the truth.
He might have hard time to express his emotions. I don’t like to say never and forever. I think it’s unstable attraction, more on-off type. But I’m not the expert and don’t do composite midpoints. Also, tr. Uranus is close by your moon. It might bring instability in your life and that type of rs.
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MissBo24 | Thank you for your insight though! Right now I’m not sure what to do next. I want to talk to him but sometimes he replies to my messages after 4-9 days so after that I am like mehh don’t feel like talking anymore. Do you think I should talk to him about it? Should I just say whatever on my mind? I know he doesn’t have any water in his natal chart and he might think I am being dramatic lol well but If he thinks I am too much then clearly we are not for each other |
Librapurr | This sound like like Uranus Neptune pretty much. I had Mars Uranus or/and Neptune in synastry or/and composites. When I needed they were nowhere to be found. When they tried to approach- I was over already. Your transit Uranus, natal Aqua don’t help there. They might make you inconsistent too. I noticed now his Venus is exact on your Composite Sun. So he values this relationship. It makes him feel better. Your natal Venus Mars is on composite Mercury maybe you value more communication and mental quality of this connection. Your Pluto Moon isn’t aspected (it might be wide aspect to his DC). So it could be hard to get emotional fulfillment what it sounds like you need in this rs. Also, comp. Moon sq. Uranus and Neptune says that.You need to figure out yourself what you want. You said you were fine with relationships to be non- traditional and long-distance, but it seems like you want more deep and committed connection what might be hard in this situation.
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MissBo24 | Exactly!! When I needed him then he was nowhere to be found!! Uranus and Neptune make me sick. But like said personally I don’t mind being in a long distance and not seeing each other for months (natal venus in aquarius) but I do want a committed stable emotional relationship connection (natal venus conjunct saturn). Like we don’t have to see each other every day or month but we do need to talk everyday, not talking all day at least send me 2-3 texts thats it. You said he values this relationship but in what way? If he values this relationship why he acts like this tho? Right now we both are friends but he can’t even have consistent communication with me as a friend!!! None of my friends leave me on delivered for days. Like if you gonna be friends with me then lets talk about whatever then end the conversation on that day and if we not gonna talk for the next 3-4 days its ok. But between me and him lets say we having a conversation about “What are your favorite hobbies?” Seriously it takes 3-4 days to finish this conversation with him!! Can you believe it? Like why can’t we just talk and get it over within a day!!! Not going too far as being in a romantic relationship, rn he can’t even be there for me as a friend!!! I think I will confront him about it otherwise he will never change. I’m being inconsistent because he is being inconsistent usually I’m the most consistent person ever in the universe lol
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Librapurr | As I said there’re challenges in charts. If it’s so bad now, why not to talk about it. You know him so you could see if he is generally that bad or something is going on. Venus Mars sq. Saturn could be too serious and closed off. |
MissBo24 | quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: As I said there’re challenges in charts. If it’s so bad now, why not to talk about it. You know him so you could see if he is generally that bad or something is going on. Venus Mars sq. Saturn could be too serious and closed off.
I will talk to him for sure. Thank you for your insight tho |
Librapurr | quote: Originally posted by MissBo24: I will talk to him for sure. Thank you for your insight tho
You’re welcome. May communication work in your favor. |
MissBo24 | A little update: I talked to him and he said "I am sorry, when I am busy sometimes I forget to reply but I will do better" So lets see if he will really do better like he promise |